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With an insertable length of 5.5 inches and a total length of 7.3 inches, the Enigma Double Sonic is designed to reach deep within, stimulating areas that other toys might miss. The body-safe silicone exterior ensures a luxurious feel against the skin, while the USB rechargeable battery means you’ll never be caught short of power when the mood strikes. Are you trying to reproduce a specific feeling (intercourse? a blow job?), or are you seeking a totally new sensation like vibration or texture? Do you prefer the control of holding the toy, or do you want a toy that leaves you hands-free?

It works via both Bluetooth and Wi-Fi , making it a good choice for both close and long-range play. You’ve heard that “moderation is key” and “there can be too much of a good thing,” right? However, we just wanted to make sure, because self-love is a thing, and vibrators can actually help women who are experiencing sexual dysfunction.

The other (a.k.a. the handle) is a 5.75-inch long dildo with a motor inside that enables it to vibrate, twist, and twirl, so it can also target your G-spot—talk about multitasking. And since each side has a separate motor, you can use them independently. To help you out, we created the ultimate list of our very favorite sex toys for all.

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“It gave me the most intense orgasms I’ve ever experienced,” said one satisfied tester. Some brands may note that their toys are made from “body-safe” materials. All medical-grade silicone is also body-safe—but the reverse isn’t always true. To find the best wand vibrators, SELF contributors pulled on their combined nearly three decades of experience testing and reviewing sex toys. We also consulted 10 experts and asked them to share their tried-and-true recommendations. The final list includes high-quality, top-rated wand vibrators across different sizes, price points, and intensities.

The fixed tail keeps it in just the right place and at just the right angle for the kind of O’s you really deserve. “Solo play allows for leaning into pleasure without having to think about anything else. It’s a good opportunity to find out for yourself what your pleasure potential is and how you get there. This can be really empowering,” explains Rachel Zar, LMFT viberator, CST, a relationship and sex therapist at Spark Chicago Therapy and Northwestern Medicine Center for Sexual Medicine & Menopause. All the tone in the world doesn’t mean much if a guitar plays like a log.

“I love the Cutie Heart for its obviously adorable shape [and] travel-friendly compact size,” says Rowntree. Like many other air-pulse toys out there, you’ve probably seen a few of these before—but this one is just a bit more discreet than other alternatives. The suction feels amazing, with twelve different intensity settings and waterproof capabilities. From a discreet vibrator disguised as a cute little ice cream cone to pint-sized suction toys, these discreet sex toys will keep your sex life your business (while still providing plenty of pleasure, naturally).

Made from soft silicone, it has five speeds and six patterns for users to enjoy, with most of our testers saying it helped them achieve a stronger orgasm more quickly. To find the top performers, our Good Housekeeping Institute testing panel of 123 women put a range of models to the test. While I easily had sex with my partner during the aforementioned play party, sitting on top of an intensely vibrating machine in front of people I didn’t know felt too exposed for me, for some reason. However, the other people I’d seen trying it out always looked like they’d immensely enjoyed it. That’s why when the opportunity arose for me to try the Motorbunny Buck in my own home, I was stoked.

Your sexual health is paramount, so sexual self-care is just as essential as all other forms of self-care—don’t short-change yourself in this area. There’s never a bad time to invest in a product that won’t just “get you there,” so to speak, but allows you to explore and experiment with different sensations. The Magic Flamingo is a versatile vibrator designed for discreet pleasure in public settings.