Most of our panel said they achieved a more intense orgasm

Crave Vesper Mini Review: The Discreet Vibrator

To wit, my other partner finds it much easier to keep a vibrator in the right spot, so how much you enjoy the Tenuto Mini can truly vary from person to person. By making this sacrifice, the Tenuto Mini becomes much more comfortable. It’s easy to slip on and off, whether you’re erect or just on the way there. Two buttons along either side of the top are easily accessible to turn the device on and off without removing it or fumbling for the controls, which is crucial.

As SELF previously reported, sex toys can pass along STIs, so safer sex practices apply here. If you’re using a sex toy with someone outside of a sexually monogamous partnership, put a condom over your toy. Condoms are also key if you want to use a toy for both vaginal and anal stimulation (which you can do as long as the toy is safe for anal, a.k.a. it has a flared base). With that being said , each clit is as unique as a snowflake and should be treated as such, according to Lexington, Kentucky-based marriage and family therapist Juliana Hauser, PhD. “Discover if your glans (clitoral tip) likes light vibration or a stronger speed,” she says.

Despite this, all found it comfortable to use and most would recommend it to a friend. Our panel also enjoyed the super-fast charging time – in just five minutes, you can have up to an hour of use. With this toy, you can pick from 26 “whisper-quiet” settings, making it ideal for anyone who’s worried about being overheard. There are myriad options to help you along in the bedroom or shower, including ribbed and curved designs. These are our top picks at a glance, but scroll on for our testers’ detailed reviews. This can potentially alienate your partner and put them on the defensive.

It’s very much down to personal preference, but here’s a quick rundown. Vibrators are great on their own, but you can use one with a partner, too. You can use it to stimulate your clitoris during vaginal sex to try for a more intense orgasm. Vibrator use is popular among both men and women of all sexual orientations. Over 43.8% of heterosexual men and 49.8% of homosexual men in the U.S. reported using vibrators, either alone or with partners. Another study found that 52.5% of women aged in the U.S. have used a vibrator before.

Consult the user manual that came with your device or look for instructions online. If you’re unable to find any information, it’s worth contacting the brand to request help. Most of our panel said they achieved a more intense orgasm with this toy and it was quicker than normal vibrators, too. With an overall satisfaction rating of 8.4 out of 10, this vibrator is certainly a welcome addition to the bedroom. At just four inches, it can easily slip into most bags (ideal for travel) and there is a healthy selection of speed settings to flit between. There were mixed reviews on how loud it was, with some finding it too noisy, but it still left a string of satisfied customers in its wake.